Saying goodbye has been one of the hardest things I've ever done in my life. Yes, of course, we say it everyday as we leave because it's out of courtesy. The goodbye I'm talking about is indicative of a funeral service. If you've ever attended a funeral service you understand that the person is never coming back. As harsh as it may be, you accept that. At some point you grieve and move on with your life as much as you can.
To much of my surprise saying goodbye to my marriage, relationship, former lifestyle was extremely hard for me...in the beginning. When I say beginning, I'm talking about the first almost two years! Yes it took that long despite how much I wanted to be and thought I was done. After I was able to understand, recognize and accept my own shortcomings in this whole thing, that's when goodbye became hello!
Hello to the me that I've been putting on the back burner to do everything that someone else needed done. Hello to my own happiness now that I wasn't focused on making sure everyone else was happy. Hello to the power of saying no and meaning it because I no longer had to say yes to keep the peace. Hello to my single voice in making decisions that made the most sense to me and I no longer had to understand or question why a decision was being made that I didn't agree with. When goodbye became hello was a blessing in disguise although painful.
I've been extremely transparent in my writings. I'm here to tell you that once you allow yourself to be open and honest with who you are...the good...the bad...the ugly...the stanky truth, you will finally reach a level of freedom for yourself. Say goodbye to everything that hinders your growth. At the end of the day, YOU are the common denominator and only YOU can transform into YOUR HELLO!
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LR WILSON, Founder
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