Men work and work and work. They were bred to provide for the family so it's innate within most men to do this. It comes without a second thought and it just happens. As fabulous as this is for the economy and financial stability (hopefully) it also can be a distraction from what is really going on at home. Most often times when men are working, they are solely focused on what they are doing. Yes they will come and go in the family structure but working is the primary goal. Of course, I'm not an expert so this is all my interpretation . .from my experiences. Because they are focused on working they lack in other areas and it becomes a struggle in the home life. Key moments in the family are missed like dinner with the family, recreational time, sporting events if kids are involved and pretty much any socializing with the family. Yes and no when it comes to fault. Let me tell you why! He is responsible for providing for the family financially; however he also is responsible for providing a sense of security in the household that goes well beyond finances. Women need to be shown affection! I know this is BREAKING NEWS to many, but it's necessary in order to keep a relationship in good standing. So imma need the worker ants to put in just as much work at home as they do on the job. That same attention to detail is needed in a relationship. That is . .IF you want to keep it!
Now we get to the caterpillars! How exciting . .right!!?? One would think that this is not interesting at all. Women are like caterpillars! We go through alot to get to our transformation. A process of true metamorphosis happens. When a caterpillar turns into a butterfly, they not only look different, they also behave differently. Women grow up . .most women . .much faster than men. The reason why is because we are born to nurture. Just like men are born to provide, we also have a specific duty to the family. . to nurture. Yes we often nurture the children, but our men also need to be nurtured. They have to be encouraged to be their best selves and we are the ones to do that. No man wants to come home to a woman that puts them down and nags all the time. It also goes the other way as well. We cook, clean, take care of the household and have it running like a fine tuned automobile. It's hard work but we make it look easy as hell. You know why? Because again it's innate. We get shit done . .bottom line! Just like the hard work a caterpillar is put through in order to emerge or transform into a butterfly is no pretty sight; yet and still the transformation and the end result is pure beauty.
Maturity comes in different phases. With each phase you will go through trials and tribulations in order to get to the next phase. The more you mature, the more you begin to recognize and understand why you do certain things or change certain things. When there is no growth . .there is no maturity. You become stagnant and stanky! Yep you heard it here first! If you're stagnant . .you're stanky! You are not evolving into your best self. You have to keep moving in order to experience maturity. It does NOT come with age sadly. It does however come with experience. Each moment we experience something . .rather negative or positive . .it plays a part in our maturity levels rising. It's up to you on what you do with your levels. The only time you are not maturing is when you die. Accept that life happens and there will be changes. Will you move with life or will you become stagnant and stanky? The choice is yours! Men Are Like Worker Ants! Women Are Like Caterpillars!
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