It's ok to NOT know!

There's this crazy thing called life that happens to us.  We are here to navigate through it with no road map or direction other than our moral compasses.  And . . lets face it . . it's not always going the right direction. Sitting here typing this blog, never in a million years would I have imagined that THIS very thing would be happening in my life . . but it is.  I never dreamt that I would suffer from depression, suicidal ideations, divorce . . none of that . . but hey it happened.  I'm saying all this to say, it's OK to NOT know what it is you are doing, going or will end up.

Life throws us curve balls all the time.  There are three things that we can do in life when curve balls are coming.  What are they you ask?  Well thank you for asking!!  First and foremost, you can duck!  Yea although this seems like the logical answer, it's unrealistic.  If we always knew it was coming, there would be no room to learn and grow from that incident.  Secondly, you can get hit by that curve ball.  Another no brainer . . however what are the chances you'll get back up and keep it moving?  Slim to none pretty much because we love a pity party whether it's brief or not . .that could keep us floored.  Finally, we can catch it!  YESSSSS . .catch it!  Jump high, get low, turn to the side, or hit the dirt catching it.  Either way . . you are taking control of what you can control in that moment.  It's OK to NOT know which way things will go, but what are you doing about it RIGHT NOW?

I can only speak for myself when I say that I am a person that like to be prepared for the what if.  Now mind you it hardly ever goes as I have prepared, but hey I feel like I'm on top of things.  Through all the trials and tribulations I have gone through in the past years of my life, I had to learn that it's OK to NOT know how things will end.  Just do what you can.  Hell if you can't do anything . .don't.  Only worry about things that are in your immediate control.  It's less stress . . less drama . .less EVERYTHING!  I can not begin to tell you how vigorating this feels!!  When you arrive .. you will know it! 

#findYOURhappy and know that the decisions you make are for the best!  Your best. . .and your family's best!  Be decisive and not indecisive.  That causes confusion which will yes . . .interrupt your happy!  Be sure to LOVE yourself more than anyone else.  It's not selfish . .it's responsible.  If you can't love yourself the way you want to be loved . . there's no way in hell you will be able to love someone else the way they desire or deserve to be loved.  It's ok to NOT know how thing will play out.  Just know that you're the main character in YOUR story so go ROCK THE HELL out of BROADWAY!!

#findYOURhappy

With Love,

LR Wilson, Founder
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