Earlier this week I had a conversation with someone that reminded me of all the things I did NOT want in my life ever again. I posted the following on social media:
"Every now and again you have that Ah Ha moment of remembrance. I'm here to let you know that it's not by chance or circumstance that you have it. That's to remind you of where you were...where you don't ever want to be again...where you are...and where you're going. Once you taste those magical seasonings called respect and appreciation...you NEVER want to go back to bland, superficial and artificial. There will always be teachable moments in our lives. It's up to you to do what you want with them!"
When I tell y'all how all the feelings of trauma...not victimization...but trauma came rushing over me...it was something I don't believe I've ever felt. It was literally like I suffered from PTSD. I very may have some of that; however at the same time I was awakened. It's crazy to me how we can sometimes treat people less than, then expect to be treated a different way. Stop putting things out into the universe that you're not ready to boomerang back.
I'm one of the nicest people I've ever met lol...but when I get to a point of disgust with a person and/or their behavior, "I'm gud luv..enjoy!" I promise I can act like you never existed in my life. Annnndddd still help you in need without hesitation...immediately resuming your nonexistence afterwards. Apologies are necessary whenever you truly want to be healed. Just like forgiveness, apologies aren't for the person that was hurt, it's for you!
In times like the ones above, I have to activate my Wonder Woman tiara skills. Yes, it's pretty and shiny but it's also a weapon. I tend to keep it ready at all times because you need to always be ready to cut down negativity in your life from all angles!
Remember to do right by people to the best of your ability and things will fall into place for you. Pride will kill the already dead!
#findyourhappy
With Love,
LR Wilson, Founder
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