Coming Through!!

You have to let people come through with the ribbon. I know I've said this before, but let me say it louder for the people in the balcony and in the bathroom out of earshot! Everybody is not rooting for you! There will be some people rooting against you because they would rather see you fail due to their own selfishness. So when I say you have to let people come through with the ribbon, I mean you have to let them win at whatever it is they are trying to do!

Every game does not require you to participate. Relationships, friendships, situationships...all the "ships" at some point make it to the finish line. Being able to understand that you can't be a participant in every game requires you to do some deep and real self examination. I have cried many nights regarding all of those types of "ships" because I thought I was doing the right thing by allowing myself to be what they wanted me to be. Or even do what they wanted me to do when it wasn't what was best for me and my situation. Welllll I had to realize that what I needed to do was focus on what I need to do for me. As selfish as it may sound, it had to be done because I seemed to be the only one looking out for me!

I have had the pleasure and blessing of being a featured guest on The 4 Opinions podcast at KMOJ Station to discuss some of the blog pieces and my continued journey on how becoming whole. I was asked a few times when I was coming on the show and I kept putting it off. I almost "just went" one time and the universe did not align for that to happen. I wasn't ready! I was doing it to appease the situation and not do what was best for my continued healing. I reached out to Tiffany Washington, one of the founding members and one of the friends I stepped away from some time ago as I went through my own stuff, and she knew it was time! She understood I needed to be aligned to come correct...raw....and ready! Please check out the WONDERFUL weekly podcast every Thursday at 7pm CST via video at The 4 Opinions page on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/2194206240895792/posts/2371331216516626/

Lastly, one question I was asked is how long does it take to get to #findyourhappy? The answer is YOU'LL KNOW! The main thing to do is trust the process and remember that everything takes T.I.M.E.
Nothing you are going through happened overnight so it won't be fixed overnight. Most importantly in order to get to your peace...you absolutely MUST MUST MUST be HONEST with yourself...ACKNOWLEDGE your role in the situation and ACCEPT it. Until you can be honest with yourself, you can't be with anyone else. I can honestly say that it is so FREEING TO TELL YOUR TRUTH...TRUTHFULLY! Hope you caught that! Let people come through with the ribbon! You're already winning!

#findyourhappy

With Love,

LR Wilson, Founder
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