Round of Applause!

One of my favorite songs is Take a Bow by Rihanna.  The chorus is very profound and goes like this:

How about a round of applause
A standing ovation

But you put on quite a show
Really had me going
Now it's time to go
Curtain's finally closing
That was quite a show
Very entertaining
But it's over now (but it's over now)
Go on and take a bow
But it's over now

When we approach the end of things, no matter what it may be, we tend to reflect on what happened to get us to this place or what is going to happen after arriving at the end.  Well, guess what . .we have reached the end and right now I am at a rebuild state of my life.  As painful, insulting and embarrassing as a divorce is, we have to accept things as they are and move right along. Congratulate those who played a part in it because there is no time like the present to rebuild who you are!  I have been doing just that!  Rebuilding and re-establishing who I am, what I want and how to go about doing it.  I once believed that we were a "power couple" as he told me.  Of course at that time the things I know now I did not know. I would never minimize my role in the whole thing because that's not who I am.  I will say however that . . .we have been through some shit babbbbyyyy . . but at the end of the day I still wanted us to be that "power couple".  Well power is distributed to each of us with different realms of responsibility. 

In order to be part of a "power couple" first things first . . hell you need to be a couple!  Secondly, you must both work towards the same goal and have the same interested investments on how to reach that goal.  Obviously you will not always agree on one strategy to get there, but you must at least come to a common ground.  Everyone has a different way of doing things and just because it's not your way, doesn't exclude it from being a right or wrong way.  The key is COMMON GROUND.    Now that the show is over . . .sadly, yet emphatically I must go on!  I must continue to strive forward and make sure I am doing what's best not only for myself; but for my kids and the people's lives I am impacting on a daily basis. No matter what you are facing . . .please understand that you MUST GO ON!  Many are depending on your success and are applauding you from behind the scenes if not in front of you. You don't really need accolades to be the BEST YOU . . JUST BE IT!

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With Love,

LR Wilson, Founder

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