The Blessing of Betrayal

Betrayal is one of those words that fuel alot of emotion no matter how you try to spin it!  You tend to think back to all the hurt, harm, embarrassment and disrespect that happened during that time.  If you have ever been or even felt betrayed, you know exactly what I'm talking about.  Betrayal is a nasty thing and can lead to many feelings.  Well I'm here to tell you that not all betrayal is bad.  Wait . .wait . .wait let me explain!

Some betrayal is a BLESSING!!  Of course when we are going through that moment this is the last thing we want to hear or even acknowledge.  If we look back over all the things that we went through to STAY in said relationship, whether it's a marriage, a friendship, a professional relationship . . whatever it is . .you went through alot to stay in it.  This relationship was given your time, your care, your sanity all for the sake of keeping it afloat.  Guess what . . that betrayal was a BLESSING!!  You are free from all that has kept you bound.

The Blessing of Betrayal is real.  I never looked at betrayal as a blessing at first.  As I slowly came into my own over the past three years, I learned that although I say "everything happens for a reason" . .I didn't fully understand that motto.  ANDDDD . . now I do!  I am living in the Blessing of Betrayal.  Things I never thought I would be able to do, I have done.  Places I've wanted to go, I have gone.  As this year comes to an end soon, I will be making some major moves in my life in an effort to continue to better myself and hopefully inspire others to do the same.

I would never advocate for someone to leave a relationship, unless it's abusive; however I will say that if you're waiting to get out of a situation and YOU have been or feel betrayed, there is a BLESSING there.  You just have to receive it.  To be quite honest, the Blessing of Betrayal in your situation may be to make things stronger, so that you and your significant other can move forward into what is to be.  Look at your circumstance and decide what would be best for YOU so that whatever decision you make, it's YOUR decision because that's what' best.  When you're good . ..everyone is good!

The Blessing of Betrayal is just that . . A BLESSING!

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With Love,

LR Wilson, Founder
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