There Are No Mistakes!

Often times when things don't go the way we planned, we are quick to say it was a mistake! The definition of mistake is an action or judgment that is misguided or wrong according to Webster. Well I'm here to tell you since no one else has...it was a choice that you made. Yes...I know this is some epic shit coming to the surface!

I, too, am guilty of saying I didn't mean to do that...it was a mistake. Then I realized that I did mean to do it. I made a choice for such action to transpire. Many will argue my point and that's ok because I had to get here too. I didn't just arrive at this valuable information. So let me just break it down a little. For instance, if you drink and drive then you happen to cause an accident. It was NOT A MISTAKE. You chose to drink...you chose to drive which in turn caused the accident. That's about as elementary as I can make this.

Fast forwarding to an almost relationship I could have stumbled into after being separated/divorced. Dodge that bullet with a FULL ARMOUR ON....sorry digressed. Anyway,  now that things didn't work out the way the other person thought it would've, you know without me but with someone else, it was a mistake. Nahhh...it wasn't. It was a choice and you chose to work on what was and not what could've been. Congratulations!

I wasn't mad..bitter or upset. Go do you! You asked and I gave. I would never stop anyone from being happy. Please believe that if you think that your life would be happier without me, by all means....LET ME GO! This is for any relationship, friendship, situationship, etc. Happiness is not in another person...it's within you. We are the keepers of our happiness. Don't ever allow someone else to determine what makes you happy because it will fail every time!

The quote attached to this post hit home for me and it was a nice reminder of exactly what I'm saying. With that said...stop making "mistakes" and allow yourself to make choices that help you grow vs stunt your growth.

#findyourhappy

With Love,

LR Wilson, Founder
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