V is for....

When is it ok to allow yourself to be vulnerable? Do you believe that there are times when we are more vulnerable than others depending on who is in your life? Although I'm asking the question, I also feel like I should kinda answer it too as it pertains to my own life. I tend to be my most vulnerable when I'm unfocused and basically just floating around. I'm literally trying to grab on to anything or anyone for some type of stability. When I say stability, I'm not talking about financially but emotionally. I'm someone that loves to love and the idea of love is beautiful...when it's done right obviously.

I also find myself vulnerable when I'm trying to prove a point or a position. I open myself up to the other person's ideations about me or the subject matter when reality it does NOT even matter because I am who I am and that's what I'm most proud of. There are times when you, well I, think is there more I should be doing? Should I open up more? Be more vulnerable to appease others?

For instance, my 2nd Annual Empowerment Event was NOT even going to happen this year because I have/had so much going on in my personal life that I didn't need one more thing to obsess over. Welllllll...my soul could not rest so I had to obey and just do it! The passion of doing the event is to allow women to show their vulnerabilities and to allow themselves to look back over how they got to their moment of truth and empowerment. I love love love helping other women feel empowered in whatever arena they choose to display it. I had a VERY short time frame to get everything together and things are coming together quite nicely with the help of some beautiful souls who needed this just as much as I do. For the record...I don't make one dime off of this event so it's more than just a gig to me and I obsess over numbers because I want people to get what they need. Then I step back and say those who are there are there for a purpose...and that's what matters! It's the passion that drives me!

So with that said, I've come to the conclusion that it's ok for me to be vulnerable in certain areas in my life and with certain people. Gauge your vulnerability and make sure you're taking care of YOU first! It's ok to be selfish with self! I hope to see you at the event next Sunday!

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LR Wilson, Founder
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