My soul was awakened when I heard India Arie's new song "Steady Love" featuring David Banner. I remember a time when I was so very much in love with my husband. Then all this other stuff happened. Through the years, although we had our ups and downs, my love for him never wavered. Now let's be real if nothing else...if you've ever had an affair or cheated or whatever you want to call it, there is a brief moment of "blindness" that occurs. Let me tell you why! Uh because you're blinded by the situation and what it has to offer. . .in the moment. Once the blinders are removed, you see a different perspective. .of EVERYTHING!
Steady Love made me feel like there is hope again to have that. It's honest, refreshing and feel good. I promised myself that I would just do me from now on. Love is too hard and too much work I said. I've shielded my heart, mind and soul from disappointment. Some of you are judging right now saying "well she had that and didn't keep it". The reality is no one knows what goes on behind closed doors unless you're there. I've been very transparent because it is part of my journey to heal. Until you can truly be honest with yourself about who you are...people will only see you as you are. MESSAGE!
Back to Steady Love! Yea so I want that in my life I think at times. Other times I do not want to be bothered with explanations or other people's issues. I definitely do not want to continue to compromise who I am in order to appease someone else's ego or existence. Now THAT will not happen. Being single is both a blessing and a dangerous curse. Once you know that you can do all that was done as a couple by yourself...babbbbbyyy let me tell you. Somebody in for a rude awakening! I will "bye" quicker than grits in boiling water! If you're from the South or know anything about cooking grits, you know what I'm talking about. If not....ummmmm....yea how about you just keep subscribing, sharing and posting my blog!
If you haven't heard Steady Love, check it out! "And then she had hope again!"
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