I Want It All!

My soul was awakened when I heard India Arie's new song "Steady Love" featuring David Banner. I remember a time when I was so very much in love with my husband. Then all this other stuff happened. Through the years, although we had our ups and downs, my love for him never wavered. Now let's be real if nothing else...if you've ever had an affair or cheated or whatever you want to call it, there is a brief moment of "blindness" that occurs. Let me tell you why! Uh because you're blinded by the situation and what it has to offer. . .in the moment. Once the blinders are removed, you see a different perspective. .of EVERYTHING!

Steady Love made me feel like there is hope again to have that. It's honest, refreshing and feel good. I promised myself that I would just do me from now on. Love is too hard and too much work I said. I've shielded my heart, mind and soul from disappointment. Some of you are judging right now saying "well she had that and didn't keep it". The reality is no one knows what goes on behind closed doors unless you're there. I've been very transparent because it is part of my journey to heal. Until you can truly be honest with yourself about who you are...people will only see you as you are. MESSAGE!

Back to Steady Love! Yea so I want that in my life I think at times. Other times I do not want to be bothered with explanations or other people's issues. I definitely do not want to continue to compromise who I am in order to appease someone else's ego or existence. Now THAT will not happen. Being single is both a blessing and a dangerous curse. Once you know that you can do all that was done as a couple by yourself...babbbbbyyy let me tell you. Somebody in for a rude awakening! I will "bye" quicker than grits in boiling water! If you're from the South or know anything about cooking grits, you know what I'm talking about. If not....ummmmm....yea how about you just keep subscribing, sharing and posting my blog!

If you haven't heard Steady Love, check it out! "And then she had hope again!"

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With Love,

LR WILSON, FOUNDER
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Free Time is Always Me Time!

Sometime in life we need to step away from the hustle and bustle of life just to enjoy some free time that's only about ME TIME! As women, in general, most of us possess that magnificent skill of multitasking EVERYONE'S lives in order to keep things working like a fine tuned machine. We NEED to make time for ourselves in order to keep functioning at our very best.

Most recently my bestie love and I took a random let's just book it trip to Myrtle Beach. It was definitely needed for both of us to regroup and re-energize. We were so damn lazy we made a new Webster Dictionary definition. Lazy (adjective)...we ain't doing shit we don't want to do and don't have to! It was very relaxing and needed happen! Free time can always be me time if you make up your mind to make it happen.

Now listen, I'm not talking to those of you who DO NOT think twice about leaving your responsibility because lets face it...you're selfish. Yep I said it! Some people truly don't give a damn about others and they don't hesitate to LIVE THEIR BEST LIVES while putting other responsibilities on the back burner or completely dismiss them. I'm not that girl! I take care of business first and then I play. I work hard and play even harder when it's time.

Stop and take time for yourself. It's healthy! It's wholesome! It's pure! It's ALL LOVE! SELF LOVE 💞💞

#FINDYOURHAPPY

With Love,

LR WILSON, FOUNDER
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Dinner and the Do!

So for the last year or so I have been on several "outings" with guys. I dare not call them dates because that what allude to the fact that I'm dating them and that is definitely not the case. Now that we have clarified that minor detail, I got questions! See I've been out the game for 20+ years and although I'm a quick learner, guys these days puzzle me!

For instance, I'm pretty straight forward about my expectations and furthermore what we will and won't be doing! In today's day and time...they ain't ready! I have absolutely zero problems letting them know "yes you can wine and dine me but we will not be Netflix and chilling!" I was having a conversation with some guys and they're take was if I buy you dinner we will be sleeping together. I said what the hell....for dinner? I am NOT that one love.

Hell I'm into numbers and alphabets at my age! 401K, IRA, credit scores, mortgage payments, car payments and such. Even when I was younger I was not that girl! Like why would you think we would be sleeping together because you bought me dinner?? I guess different strokes for different folks! Now let's get this perfectly clear, I'm not a gold digger but I am into gold if you hear what I'm saying. If you can't figure that out....you definitely are not in my lane.

I don't knock people for what they do because let's face it...I ain't no saint! I do however expect to be respected and you should too. Now if that's your thing...dinner and the do...do you. That's just not for me. Everything is not for everybody and that's ok. At the end of the day you are in control of what will and won't happen. Never be afraid of voicing what works for YOUR LIFE! They will either get on board or get out the way!

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LR WILSON, FOUNDER
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